… but some of the big mistakes many married women make is spending too much time checking their husband’s phone and whereabouts, hoping to find proof of his commitment.
They tend to keep telling him what they need, seeking constant reassurance that they’re making the right choices.
They might set strict boundaries, expecting him to prove his dedication.
These methods keep you trapped in a never-ending cycle of doubt and anxiety.
Constantly checking his phone and whereabouts only heightens your insecurity and mistrust, leading to even more emotional turmoil.
Continuously seeking reassurance from him may temporarily ease your fears, but it ultimately reinforces your dependency on his validation, leaving you feeling powerless and vulnerable.
And setting strict boundaries as a way to regain control often backfires, as you find yourself constantly questioning if he’s truly committed or just complying to avoid conflict.
It’s like being stuck on a hamster wheel, spinning in circles without ever moving forward or finding peace of mind.
If your husband was unfaithful and you’re left deciding whether you should stay or leave, you’re not alone. And if you’ve tried telling him what you need, checking his phone, and setting boundaries with no more clarity … I promise you, there’s a better way.
Every year, I work with countless women who are juggling the decision to stay or leave. It seemed like regardless of what they did, or didn’t do, they were always stuck with one foot in and one foot out, waiting for the reason to leave, or for the confirmation to stay.
It wasn’t until they applied the methods I train on, that they could clearly assess their marriage and decide, with confidence, if they wanted to stay and work on their marriage or leave.
If you’re in a similar situation and would like help navigating through this, I invite you to watch my free masterclass where I show you:
I’m a wife, a mom to six, and have over 2500+ hours and 16 years of specific training to heal trauma in the body.
I, like you, have experienced a marriage where infidelity has taken place.
I was told by experts that my husband was the one that was responsible for breaking the trust in our marriage, so he was the one that needed to fix it.
I waited and watched for him to prove himself trustworthy, but years later, I still didn’t trust him, I still couldn’t decide if I had made the right decision to stay … and worse than that, I had completely lost myself.
Constant rumination of the “what if’s” and the images of him and her together had taken over my mind. My body felt uptight and on edge, and I would lose it to my children who were not deserving of such behavior.
I did things I never thought I would. I snooped through my husband’s car, read through every email, and tracked his whereabouts to see if I could find enough evidence to trust him, or to say goodbye to my marriage … only to experience more anxiety, hyper-vigilance, and confusion.
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